Sunday, December 9, 2012

Advent 2: Hunger and Satisfaction



Advent 2: Malachi 3:1-4/Luke 3:1-6

But who can endure the day of his coming, and who can hold out when he appears? Malachi 3:2

A few years ago I was driving my kids home from a school activity. Along the way, I asked them to help me understand a few things about this time of year. I am generally the chief provocateur when it comes to questions of cultural icons and their power in our society. And I was in the mood to provoke. So, I engaged my kids with the classic parental question: what is at stake in the arrival of Santa? “Gifts, of course”, they replied. “Sure”, I continued, “but gifts come from many people – grandparents, for example – so again I ask, why Santa?” The conversation in the car went silent long enough for me to negotiate a few tight corners. “Because,” my eldest finally contended, “Santa is the one who is supposed to bring us what we want, the things that really get us excited.” There was a general agreement among the siblings. I began to raise a follow up question but we had made it home. It was time to worry about other things.

My kids had provided the kind of answer that I have come to expect when it comes to a season of the year known for the giving and receiving of gifts. The air is thick with advertising. Our better nature is prompted to stock up on items for all our loved ones. It’s better to give, than receive, right? There is a long history of critique from within the church concerning the commercialization of religious celebrations and season. This is not the time to rehearse these critiques; except to say that one nagging appraisal that is especially appropriate in the days of Advent focuses our attention on what it is we want or expect at Christmas. My kids expressed their wish to have their desires met in the form of things that get them excited. Can we truly expect anyone to get excited about God when presents are in our dreams and wishes?

I read something this week from the Oxford scholar, Graham Ward, which gave me pause in light of my questions around desire and Advent. Ward commented that, “grace requires a hunger, a sense of what one lacks, recognition of vulnerability, weakness, the need for redemption. Salvation cannot operate where there is nothing needed or where there is satisfaction with what one has[1]. Satisfaction and need: these terms form part of our narrative around how we navigate a world of wants, a world where our desires draw us to tangible reminders of our worth to ourselves, and our worth to others.   Yet what of hunger, vulnerability, and salvation?

Let’s consider the use of ‘hunger’ for a moment. It is the word Ward uses with relation to grace; it denotes longing, stretching for something, moving towards a goal; the goal of our desire. When the prophet Malachi wanted to express the anticipation of the arrival of God’s messenger, he used the language of endure, as in, “who can endure the day of his coming.” Endure is not really the best word to capture what the prophet is getting at; better perhaps is contain or hold. Malachi is challenging God’s people: who of you, he contends, can contain or hold the gift that God will send? The simple response is nobody, at least, not in reference to how God provides. Consider: when God gives, God does so in abundance (think of the diversity and beauty of creation). God overwhelms. This is both a word of judgment and a sign of grace. We want, we desire, we long after; and God overwhelms us with what we most need. Not always what we want; but in giving us what we need we learn to desire what God gives. 

This is the wisdom of Advent: that so often we want and desire things with a hunger that should be orientated towards other, more difficult gifts: like the gift of ourselves in service to others, and the gift of our abundance for the benefit of the common good. How about hunger for justice, peace and goodwill? Yet even if we were to hunger after such things, the one thing we cannot hunger enough for is the one thing that eludes us until the hereafter: union and friendship with God as the bearer of all good gifts and the giver of life in all its fullness. Everything else we desire leads only to something else to desire; not so with God. God completes, God encompasses our true end as human beings. It is perfectly good to desire things that bring us joy, items that can be celebrated with family or friends or even just in our own life. The thrust of Advent’s proclamation is not that we should abandon what brings us joy in our life; rather, the message is that our deepest satisfactions and our deepest joys are discovered as we deepen our walk with God. 

What Malachi and John the baptizer after him drive home for us as the church, is this: we, that is, human beings and all creation, are truly being human when we hunger or stretch for life with God. This is what it means to hope. God comes to us, and fill us, overflowing our lives and our community with God’s presence made manifest through life with others. The alternative is to hunger or desire something that lacks the gift of goodness and the promise of friendship: items or states of being that decay, or break or simply dissolve over time. As humans, we want life to contain something, to mean something. But who can contain what God brings? Will it break us, overwhelms us, destroy us? 

Having our lives re-oriented in a Godward direction, I dare say, is not painless; it requires of us to loosen our grip with regards to our sense of security and our fear of death. We must face our submission to the power of wealth and its related cousin, the illusion of salvation at the hands of technology. We must contend with shifting values and corruptible ideals. And we do so under the promise of a God who cannot be contained or held but who contains us, hold us, in love so that we might grow together in that love. 

Gifts are fine; gifts are signs of charity and friendship. Yet, Santa cannot bring what only God can in the flesh of Mary’s child: the gift of our salvation, the gift of redeemed humanity, and the promise to overcome our sin and death through the human body of this child.  It may not sound like much of a life when compared to the insatiable hunger generated by the marketplace; however, where else can we discover true human living if not in the God who created us and sustains us moment by moment? This Advent may we strive after God through prayer, service and joy, so that when Christmas arrives, we will recognize the babe born to Mary as the source of human satisfaction.


[1] Ward, G. S. (2009). The politics of discipleship : becoming postmaterial citizens. (Grand Rapids, Mich., Baker Academic), p. 266.

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